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Patricia "Patty" Hand Offenbacher passed away on November 23, 2012 at her home. She was born to the late Major William A. Hand, Sr. and Audrey Williamson Hand in Hot Springs, Arkansas on September 2, 1949. As an Army brat, she had the opportunity to live in many different locations, including South Carolina, Hawaii and Ohio, and finally settled in Baton Rouge 45 years ago. She had a life-long love of learning, and attended Ohio State University and Louisiana State University, where she majored in math. At this time in her life, she met Maurice "Morey" Offenbacher, who would become her devoted friend and husband. Patty had an amazing talent of creating beautiful quilts, and shared this gift by dedicating over 20 years to making and anonymously donating over 200 quilts to Quilts of Valor, the N.I.C.U., the American Heart Association, St. Jude Children's Hospital, CASA and other charities. She also made heirloom quilts for each family member and many friends. She was an active member of the Just Friends Sewing Circle, and enjoyed her time spent in the quilting community. She is survived by a wealth of family and friends who loved her greatly, including her husband of 44 years, Maurice Offenbacher; her daughter, Desiree' Peden, son-in-law, Trey; grandson, Alex; granddaughter, EmilyClaire; sisters, Karen Bond and husband Lance, Beverly Ruiz and husband Sam, and Terri Serrata; brothers, Tom Hand and wife Terri, Neal Hand, and Steve Hand; sister-in-law, Virginia Hand; brother-in-law, Ray and wife Ann; father-in-law, Robert Offenbacher; 13 nieces and 17 nephews; and numerous great-nieces and great-nephews. She was preceded in death by her father; brother, Dr. William A. Hand, Jr.; sister, Lora Barrientes; and mother-in-law, Ruth Offenbacher. In lieu of a memorial service, Patty would ask that you honor her memory by donning your favorite LSU gear and voting for a Republican. Her family would also like to ask that you honor her by smiling through the pain, doting upon your children, tolerating someone difficult, making amends, being a better friend, and most importantly - turning to someone you love right now, and telling them so. These are the qualities of which the world needs more. Special thanks to: life-long friends Tom and Sandra Rogers who provided years of adventure, joy and hospitality; close friend Robin Waller, who gave Patty comfort and the gift of laughter; Clovis Morrison and Dave Williams, who enabled us to give home health care; and Jay Evans and Kim Spillers with Amedisys Hospice for their kindness and compassion. Charitable contributions in her honor may be made to a veterans' organization, such as Wounded Warriors, or an organization of your choosing. A celebration of life will be held at a later date. Arrangements by Resthaven Gardens of Memory and Funeral Home. Please visit www.resthavenbatonrouge.com to offer condolences.
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To Patty's family,
My heart is broken for the loss of Patty. The quilting community will never be the same. She was so, so talented and so giving, and to many. Her fight is over now, but she lives in our hearts. I will miss you Patty.
Patti Jarreau
November 26, 2012
susan fuller
November 26, 2012
Patty had a wonderful child-like quality. She broke everything down to its simpliest parts. She dwells in our hearts.
Suzi Montague
November 26, 2012
Patti was always so willing to share her gift of quilting. She gave me my first basic instructions when I began to quilt. She a dear. Iris Comeaux
November 26, 2012
Patty was a real jewel and so talented as a quilt maker. She was also a real fighter making it as long as she did and we are all grateful for the privilege of having her as a friend. We will miss her terribly.
Kay Olinde
November 26, 2012
MO:
I'M VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. PATTY WAS A REAL LADY AND ALL WILL MISS HER. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.
JERRY LANGLOIS AND FAMILY
November 26, 2012
To Patty's family,loved ones & friends.
Patty was a wonderful woman.Had a heart of gold.I'll miss her in our Gathering of Friends Quilt Circle.R.I.P. Patty,you will be missed.
Alice Watson Bateman
November 25, 2012
Morey and Desi. I know your hearts are broken to lose your dearest friend and mom. She loved you both so much.
It is hard to imagine our quilting world without Patty being a part of it . I will always cherish wonderful memories of us starting quilting classes together back in 1991. She was definitely a natural at this form of art. The girl had a brain that could figure out anything and so incredibly talented .
I know Patty is in a better place now and at peace. We will all miss her.
Lillian & Syd Dann
November 25, 2012
Mo,
I'm so sorry to hear about your beloved Patty. You always spoke so fondly about Patty and Desiree when we worked together. My very deepest sympathy goes to you and your family.
Julie Smith
November 25, 2012
Morey, Desi...our hearts ache with you over Patty's passing. She was special to each and every one of us in her very unique way. I know right now she's hugging Billy and Daddy with her big hugs and laughing with them. We all love her and you all. May you find peace and know we're all praying for you. Love Tom and Terri.
Tom Hand
November 24, 2012
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