NCO, B.S., M.A. A native of Welsh and resident of Prairieville, he passed away Friday, September 28, 2012 at the age of 37. He was an Army Veteran and a retired Professor and Academic Manager at the University of Phoenix. He is survived by his Loving wife Sirika Tiffany Rampersad Abshire; daughter Kristen Paige Abshire; son Graison Reid Abshire; and precious Yorkshire Terrier, Indra Leigh Abshire; parents Ronald Abshire Sr. and Cheryle Bourgeois Abshire; sister Rhonda Matte and husband David; and two brothers, Donovan Abshire and Ronald Abshire Jr. A Memorial Service will be held at Walters Funeral Home, located at 2424 North University Ave. Lafayette, LA 70507. Visitation will begin at 1:30pm with Memorial beginning at 2:00 pm. A special Thanks goes out to Gene Walters, a fellow Veteran, for his open heart and generosity. Arrangements with Ourso Funeral Home, Gonzales, www.oursofh.com.
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I miss you dad even though i didn't get to know you well you will still be in a place in my heart forever god bless.
Graison Abshire
Family
November 7, 2023
John i miss you all the time . A lighted candle to find your way to heaven , when JESUS returns for all of us.R.I.P.until the day.
Dawn
November 25, 2016
My memory seems to want to lapse. John celebrating his 41st birthday. later John Love You. Dad
Dad
December 31, 2015
To my son, John on his 40TH birthday. My son today is your birthday. I wish you were here so I could hug you and tell you happy birthday. The memories of you are so still very present, seeing how happy you were when we celebrated that special day with you. How excited you were when Mom would bring out the cake and all your friends and relatives were here on this very special day with gifts to say how much they loved you. We were truly blessed to have you , and still are. Now you celebrated your life in heaven, the true life. We can't help wishing we could be there with you. Some day we will be there celebrating all of our new beginnings. Happy Birthday. I can't tell you how much I miss you there're no words to describe that. I Love you John and again Happy Birthday.
Dad
December 30, 2015
My son; This will be our third Christmas we will celebrate without you physically here. It's harder each year as time goes by. We know you are here with us spiritually at this time because we feel your presence. You know we still light the chimnia at night and celebrate the same as we 've always done. We talk of all the years past when you all were small. And how you guys were always into things. We even find out things of the past never mentioned before. I guess it's because it' all safe now. If I had one wish that could be granted to me you know what that would be. We will celebrate this year and you will be here with us and talked about. I love you son stay close to me as you always have for every Christmas passed. I'm sure you're celebrating each day the true meaning of Christmas. With heavy heart I write this note to you. Merry Christmas John I love you. Dad
Dad
December 21, 2015
Well yet another year has pass you are still miss greatly . I know that you are looking down at us .l.Y.A. DAWN.
Dawne Rampersad
October 10, 2015
John, Here it is almost another year has gone by since you've gone. I dread the month of September, I just wish I could bypass it. I still picture your beautiful smile, I still remember your voice and that little hop in your walk. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of you or miss you. Most of the time I think of how mischievous you were at times then, I catch myself laughing out loud. But soon I get back to reality and remember they are just very pleasant memories. God! I wish you were here. Some days are good days and some not so much. I also miss those good conversations we used to have. One day we'll do it again. I love you son and for me to try to tell you of how much I miss you is useless to say, I just don't know how. Later, (Dad) P.S. Keep sending me those beautiful butterflies. They always make my day.
Dad
September 14, 2015
Hello John, I still have your number in my flip cell phone. Yes, I know. I need to upgrade my cell phone. LOL.
Still miss you dearly even more today that I can't hear your voice. But I can feel your spirit watching over me. Continue to Rest my Friend.
SFC(Retired) Hughes
Wayne M. Hughes
August 7, 2015
John, I don't know how to explain how much I miss you. It still hurts as much today as it did almost three years ago. The one thing that does help me is that I now know that you will never feel pain again and that you are now our Guardian Angel watching over us all. Until we are all together again, I love you, Mom
August 5, 2015
Dear Dad,
I don't know if you will get this message or not, or where you are even. But if the forces of life allow you to receive this message then here goes. I think about you a lot still. I think of how you are still alive, through me, through Graison, and through all of your loved ones, you live. A lot of the time I look at myself in the mirror and see you. The way I perceive situations at times reminds me of you. It is in these little things that tell me your life goes on through what I do. It makes me want to work even harder so that I can make your genes proud.
I do want to apologize because at first I felt guilt for missing your funeral, and your memorial, I made excuses but I knew I just didn't want to accept it, or see you there without breath. I didn't want to accept it and it was selfish of me, but as time went on I have realized it was the best thing I could do. I didn't want to accept it right there and then, when it did happen I was shocked. Almost two years later and now I can accept the fact that you are gone. Sometimes I wish you were here, so that I could have a father to talk to. Though I know you are somewhere, still alive in a new way. And though it may not be here, and I may not get to speak to you or see you, I remember that I am still a piece of you. And that, though perhaps saddening, is pretty cool. I hope you are enjoying the time and space of where ever exactly it is that you reside at this moment. I just wish you peace. And I urge to show you gratitude for all you did for me while you had life on this planet. Love you always. -Krissy
Krissy Abshire
September 7, 2014
My dear friend, John. I only knew you for a short while as your Supervisor in the Military. I was getting to know you more once we both got out and started a great relationship calling each other and just talking about life in general. Miss you dearly, John. I know you are in Heaven looking down on your Family and True Friends, awaiting on us to arrive to welcome us in. I still have your number in my cell phone. SFC(Retired), U.S. Army
Wayne M. Hughes
April 1, 2014
It seems as though it were only yesterday that God brought you home to live with Him even though it has been 18 months. They say that time heals. I am learning that all it does is teach us each day how to live with the pain. Loving you forever and missing you so, so much. Mom
March 31, 2014
My Dearest Son;-There is not a day that goes by that I'm not thinking of you.Since your passing everything about me has changed, My priorities are not so much about this World.I try to keep as close to you as I can.I think of when you were growing up and how much you wanted to learn. You always liked a challenge, and you always beat it. Sometimes I'll be driving to a job,and I'll feel like you're with me.Almost everyday, while working, I'll see a butterfly. Is that you?I feel so peaceful.While driving I catch myself speaking out loud to you,hoping to get a response but never do. I miss your beautiful smile,your unique walk,your intelligent voice, your hugs, your laughter.I know God had his reasons to bring you home, but it's hard to let you go.When I bow my head to pray at night, I feel a chill that you're beside me, holding me. My heart pains knowing I have to wait to see you again.Stay close to me. I love you Son. - Dad
March 29, 2014
MISSING YOU:-
You never said I'm leaving.
You never said good bye.
You were gone before we knew it.
And only GOD knows why.
A million times we need to talk.
A million times we cried.
If love alone could saved you.
You never would have died.
In life we all loved you dearly.
In death we all still love you .
In our hearts we hold a special place,
that only you can fill.
you will truly be missed.
Dawn Rampersad
December 4, 2012
you will be miss John, for this short time you give us, but you left us 2 pieces of you a beautiful daughter and a handsome son to cherish, may God bless you and guide you through this journey safely.love Dawn
Dawn
October 23, 2012
John, I will miss our phone talks about life and the military. May God be with your family for comfort, and I will keep you and your family in my Prayers. Rest in Peace my Friend. God Bless.
Wayne M. Hughes
October 16, 2012
Dear brother, my life would not be the same had I not met such an awesome person like you. God has a special place for people like you... Rest in Peace ~One Love~
Neb Jones
October 12, 2012
So sorry for your lost. He was such a great person, loved by everyone. We will all miss him. May God bless all the siblings and parents. May he rest in peace.
Thelma & Norman DeBarge
October 9, 2012
We love and miss you rest in peace
Emily Fontenot
October 8, 2012
I know these simple words will not lessen your sorrow but I pray that you will find comfort in the words of the Lord.
You and your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
John 14:1-3 & Hebrews 4:16
Melissa Lanning
October 8, 2012
I know these simple words will not lessen your sorrow but I pray that you will find comfort in the words of the Lord.
You and your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
John 14:1-3 & Hebrews 4:16
Melissa Lanning
October 8, 2012
Sirika, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. From your Alaskan family.
Cintra Larson
October 8, 2012
My true friend. Your family is my family. You will be in our hearts always. I am blessed to have walked beside you.
Randy and Greta Roaix
October 8, 2012
Ron and Cheryl, I am so sorry to hear of your son. May Our good Lord bless you and give you strength at this time.
Bridget Leger
October 8, 2012
Rest In Peace cousin for there is a time we all will meet again. Prayers for all the Family and Friends!
Christopher White & Family
October 7, 2012
John was an outstanding NCO and a wonderful, hardworking person. He will be dearly missed by all. Our prayers go out to his family during their time of loss. May God give you peace knowing John is in heaven.
CSM (Ret.) & Patty Hamilton
October 7, 2012
This candle is being lit in honor of John Abshire and his family. May your light forever shine especially when your families are at their darkest times.
Rafaella Hill
October 7, 2012
My deepest condolences. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Heather Begnaud Daigle
October 6, 2012
our prayers are with you all.
Shirley Vincent
October 6, 2012
Sirika, so sorry for your and your family's loss. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
Ms. Sharon & Family
October 5, 2012
It was a shock to hear to a dear friend has passed on. Our heartfelt condolences are offered to John's family, parents & siblings. We will continue to lift both families in prayer and we pray that God provides you with a peace that surpasses all understanding.
Noah & Monica Victorian Zeno, Frances Victorian & Family
October 5, 2012
To Mrs. Cheryl and family I love you all unconditionally, my prayers will be with you always. Hold to God's unchanging hand and he will see you through.
Rafaella Hill
October 5, 2012
Sorry to say I learned that a dear friend passed away, way to young with a great family. I knew him only briefly for a few years. Always the consummate professional NCO, husband and family man. He made an incredible impression on me in that short time. His friendship will truly be cherished and now missed. 1SG Kroll (Ret)
October 5, 2012
My sincerest condolences. I pray you all find strength during these trying days.
Shannon Landry
October 5, 2012
OUR LOVE AND PRAYERS GOES OUT TO JOHN'S FAMILY AND FRIENDS. HE WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR HEARTS.
LAFOSSE MARGIE
October 5, 2012
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
From the Staff of Ourso Funeral Home
October 6, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I'm sorry for your loss.
Jessica Lanning
October 5, 2012
Rest in peace and God bless your family!
Jim Barker
October 4, 2012
Sirika, my family out here in BC, Canada, sends our deepest condolences and prayers to your family at this difficult time.
Tiesha Roopsingh
and family.
Chilliwack, BC, Canada
October 4, 2012
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. ~From a headstone in Ireland
I am so sorry for your loss. John's family and loved ones are in my thoughts and prayers.
Heather Derouen Wyatt
October 4, 2012
I will miss you dad, thank you for giving me the gift of life, and I will never stop writing. To my dad's fsmily; I love you all, and I know we will get through this.
Krissy Abshire
October 4, 2012
So sorry for your loss. Thinking and praying for you during this difficult time.
Anne Hebert Sarver
October 4, 2012
John was a good friend to both of us. You and your family are in our prayers.
Kat and Jason
Kat Walker
October 4, 2012
May God Bless you all in this time of need. We are so sorry for your loss. Love and prayers, Cathy & Ron Richard
Cathy Richard
October 4, 2012
October 3, 2012
So sorry for your loss. Keeping the Abshire Family in our prayers & close to our heart at this most difficult time!
Martha & J.W. Fruge (Mire, LA)
J.W. & Martha Fruge
October 3, 2012
I was in shock when I heard. May the peace of our Lord and Savior be with you and your family. I am in still shock.
Jeremy Arceneaux
October 3, 2012
Prayers for the entire family. I graduated with his dad, Ronnie. God bless everyone and may he bring you peace at this most difficult time. ~Phyllis Arceneaux Dougay -Sulphur, La.
October 3, 2012
Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you all.
Sonya Hill McNabb
October 3, 2012
Sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May the Lord continue to bless each one of you and give you peace.
Don and Jeannie Guillotte
October 3, 2012
May god watch over your family John until you can be together agian. My prayers are with your family. You will be missed my friend.
Stephen Kirouac
October 3, 2012
we are so sorry for your loss..pray that God give you strengh throu this sad time,,Koreen & Tim McNab.
koreen McNab
October 3, 2012
John, we will miss you but will hold you forever in our hearts and memory. Sirika, be strong and know that our prayers are with you.
"Uncle" Bill and Sherry
Sherry Rister
October 3, 2012
We are sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Love
Joe and Greg
Joseph Baros
October 3, 2012
So sorry about John. You gave us a beautiful granddaughter. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Debbie Derouen
October 3, 2012
I love and will miss you, Love Nanny
Sandy Stebbins
October 3, 2012
Sorry for your loss. He was a great man and he will be missed
Kelly Cole
October 3, 2012
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