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Shirley Mae Barbay "CiCi" Graham, a native and resident of Baton Rouge passed away Friday, June 6, 2014 at the age of 81. Shirley was retired from Jerrold A. Black CPA. Visitation will be at Most Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church on Tuesday, June 10, 2014 from 9:30am until Mass of Christian Burial at 11am officiated by Rev. Phil Spano. Pallbearers will be her sons and sons-in-law. Burial will follow at Roselawn Cemetery. She is survived by two daughters and sons-in-law, Colleen and Paul Kron and Theresa and Don Detillier; six sons and five daughters-in-law, Dennis and Sherry Graham, John Graham, Clifton and Charlene Graham, Henry and Connie Graham, Andrew and Pam Graham and Michael and Carolyn Graham; the father of their children, Richard Graham; twenty three grandchildren; seventeen great grandchildren; sisters, Delores Fourrier; Ellen Ducote and husband Cilton, brothers August Barbay, III and wife Jeanette, and Kenneth Barbay and wife Pat. Preceded in death by her parents, August and Noelie Barbay and a brother Frank Barbay. The family wishes to express their sincere appreciation for the loving care given to Shirley by JoAnn Bland. Matt. 25:23 "…Well done, good and faithful servant…" Rabenhorst Funeral Home East in charge of funeral arrangements. 272-9950.
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Mom, Your 83rd birthday just passed on Mon 26, 2015. this is your No.3 Son Moe. I've wanted to write something in this damn Guest Book ever since you passed away. But for the first time, for me, words have failed me. You were, are, and will always be my Inspiration, my Beacon in the Night, but most of you are simply my Mother.
You gave me the will and way to go on, when I thought I couldn't go on. You comforted me, and showed me by being stronger than I could ever be when facing adversity day by day, hour by hour, and second by second when you had to. I know we lied to each other every day how we felt. but Mom when I saw the strength you had fighting the painful debilitating medical problems faced every day, it gave me the strength to keep going. You always said, Son, you just have to keep on going, no matter what, and make the best of it. So I continue on Mom
That's you Mom, the Best of It, which is Everything to Us.
I love you, Clifton...
Clifton Graham
October 28, 2015
June 29, 2015
June 29, 2015
Happy Mother's Day Mom. Sure do miss you so much. I Love You Mom, John
May 10, 2015
Mom, it has been a long 8 1/2 months since you went to heaven. I miss you so much mom, everyday I look for you in your favorite chair by the window. Mom I love you more than I ever showed you and I am sorry for not telling you I love you more than what I did
February 20, 2015
Maw Maw Graham was matriarch of this family in the most honorable, and humble way I have ever witnessed. She will be forever missed, but never forgotten! She left a legacy though, it was profoundly evident in the last few days as we gathered as a family. She gave us the priceless gift of each other. I will be forever grateful!! Love you all!
Emily Sharp
September 29, 2014
had a great time with my grandma at bayou country fest. I love you grandma and miss u so much
scott graham
September 28, 2014
had the best time with my grandma at the bayou country fest
scott graham
September 28, 2014
September 24, 2014
Mama, you were an inspiration to all of us. Throughout all your trials and tribulations, you kept on going . What an honor and privilege to be your daughter. I love you so much mama and I miss you more than I ever thought was possible. May you rest in peace mama!
Colleen
June 29, 2014
Moma, you fought the good fight, you finished the race & I know you keep the faith. I will miss you deeply.
Michael Graham
June 12, 2014
Donna Reeder
June 10, 2014
Donna Reeder
June 10, 2014
Donna Reeder
June 10, 2014
Donna Reeder
June 10, 2014
June 10, 2014
Mrs.Shirley, an angel in life & now an angel in heaven! i will miss you dearly!! Much love from me & Rach!!! We love you always!!
Donna Reeder
June 10, 2014
She was a wonderful woman and will be greatly missed.
Laura Corona
June 9, 2014
My condolences ! My memories of Mrs. Shirley are from childhood, and they are fond memories. She was a sweet lady that I know will be missed by many.
June 7, 2014
Jennie Duke-Mathis
June 7, 2014
Very sorry for your loss. As I have been learning, grief is the price of loving someone. I know she was loved very much by many. I pray god gives you peace.
Jennie Duke-Mathis
June 7, 2014
I was so sorry to hear about Ms.Shirley.My deepest sympathy to all of you.She was a very sweet lady and I know she will be greatly missed.
Carol Hernandez
June 6, 2014
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