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Eleanor Barry Obituary

Born March 14, 1924 to Dr. Homer H. Gates and Rowena Delhommer Gates in Franklin, Louisiana. Eleanor graduated from Franklin High School as Valedictorian of her class. She attended H. Sophie Newcomb College in New Orleans where she was a member of Pi Beta Phi sorority, and graduated in 1949 with a Bachelor of Science degree. She entered the program in medical technology at Big Charity Hospital in New Orleans and passed the National Registry examination to become a Registered Medical Technologist. After working for a physician in New Orleans and then for Shreveport Charity, she moved to Houston, and became employed at Hermann Hospital. While in Houston, she met and married her husband of thirty-four years, John O'Keefe (Jack) Barry, a petroleum geologist. They lived in San Antonio where their three boys were born, then moved to Lafayette, where their fourth child, a daughter, was born. Jack continued his practice as an independent geologist until his death in 1984. While raising her children, Eleanor returned to school at the University of Louisiana at Lafayette and became a medical records administrator. She was a member of D.A.R., Les Deux Douzaines Club supporting the Lafayette Natural History Museum and Planetarium, the Pink Ladies at Lafayette General Hospital, the Olive Branch and Altar Guild at Church of the Ascension. In 2009, she became a resident at St. James Place in Baton Rouge where she continued to enjoy life and make numerous friends. Eleanor was known as a kind and gentle person, with a penchant for discipline. She never lost her sense of humor, and her keen attention to detail could be seen in her skills in china painting and later, oil acrylic painting. She became a world traveler, making trips to Europe, Egypt, Turkey, Ireland, New Zealand, and Israel, among others. Her desire to continue learning was demonstrated when, at age 85, she enrolled in a computer class in order to "learn about the internet." She was preceded in death by her parents. Survivors include her children, John O'Keefe Barry Jr. and Carolyn, and their children, Erika B.Talley (Brian), John O. Barry III, Mary B. McClure (John), Patricia B. McAnally (Austin); Dr. Patrick H.G. Barry and Kathy, and their children Dr. Gates Barry II, Garett Barry, and Jack Barry; Andrew Gates Barry and Grace, and their children, Kevin J. Barry and David N. Barry; Courtney K. Barry and her husband, Jeff Howdeshell; and one sister, Mrs. George N. Lewis, (Carol), of Tallahassee, Florida; Great-grandchildren include Lauren Talley, Leah Talley, Alexis Talley, Lila McClure, Luke McClure, Sam McClure, Eleanor (Nora) McAnally and Elijah McAnally. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Hospice of Acadiana in Lafayette, or St. Albans Episcopal Chapel in Baton Rouge. A memorial service is scheduled for December 8th, 2018 at 1:00 pm., at St. James Place, 333 Lee Drive in Baton Rouge.

Published by The Advocate from Dec. 1 to Dec. 8, 2018.
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I was so sorry to learn of the loss of your mom. I certainly remember her well while I was growing up in Lafayette. She was a wonderful teacher of medical terminology while I was a student at USL and she was a delightful person. She and my mom were friends, both DAR members and Episcopalians, and I remember hearing them referred to as Eleanor B. and Eleanor P. Please know that all of you are in my prayers.
Julie Philippi Edwards

Julie Edwards

December 11, 2018

Julie Edwards

December 11, 2018

Your family was truly blessed to have shared so many years and memories with your beloved Ms. Eleanor. May her legacy of love for family, friends and learning live on through each of you. May God provide the needed comfort and support through family and friends during your time of bereavement.

December 8, 2018

Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your love one Eleanor.

Patricia Price

December 6, 2018

While words fail to capture the pain of losing a loved one, we look forward to the time when words will fail to capture the joy of having our Heavenly Father return your dear one to you.

Tiff

December 6, 2018

You are in our thoughts always but especially during this time of your loss. I will always have fond memories of your mom and the grace she exhibited. Love Roselyn

Roselyn Childs

December 5, 2018

Dear OKeefe, Carolyn and family,
Ken and I remember watching Eleanor dancing at Tricia's wedding. She was having so much fun!! We will always think of her joy, grace, elegance and beauty that evening. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Ken and Rebecca

Rebecca Walker

December 5, 2018

May the God of all comfort strengthen the family during this time of deep sorrow. Those who pass on, God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. My sincerest condolences. (Psalms 116:15)

December 5, 2018

Im so sorry to hear about your loss. I send my deepest condolences. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" strengthen your family during this difficult time (Isaiah 61:1,2)

December 4, 2018

Losing someone close to you in death is a very painful experience. Please know that God "cares for you." (1 Peter chapter 5 verse 7) When it's hard to express ourselves to others, we can find comfort in approaching God in prayer. He understands. I hope this thought helps you cope during this time of grief.

D.L.

December 4, 2018

My sincerest condolences to Eleanor's family and friends, May the God who binds up the brokenhearted and comforts all who mourn sustain your family and friends during this sad and difficult time (Isaiah 61: 1 , 2 )

~~VW

December 3, 2018

Psalm 90:10 says that the days of our years are 70 years, And if because of special mightiness they are 80 years.
May the memories of the wonderful times you shared together bring a smile and joy in your heart.
JM

December 3, 2018

We are truly sorry for your loss. Eleanor will surely be missed. Please take your time to grieve and find comfort in knowing that God is near to all those calling on him. Psalm 145:18

December 1, 2018

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