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Wilson,Van Andrew Beloved son, brother and friend, Van Andrew Wilson went to heaven on Thursday, Jan. 26, 2006. He was born in Baton Rouge on Sept. 3, 1982. Van lived a short but full life. On Dec. 9, 2005, he achieved a goal he had set in middle school -- he completed training as a U.S. Navy SEAL. Van was in an auto accident while en route to his first duty assignment with SEAL Team 10 in Little Creek, Va. He graduated from Lee High School in 2000 with academic honors and was voted "Most Athletic" his senior year. He was the Louisiana state wrestling champion in his weight class. Van graduated from the U.S. Naval Academy at Annapolis, Md., in 2004 with a bachelor of science in oceanography. He was co-captain of the U.S. Navy rugby team and president of Team Bill, the squad that handles the Navy's mascot at football games. Confidence, fearlessness, and nonchalance -- three of Van's most notable characteristics -- were the product not of bravado but of trust in his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Good humor, loyalty, and genuine concern for others earned Van the title "best friend" from many of the young men who came to know him. He trained hard to be a leader of men in combat. An enlisted man who trained with him said Van was the officer under whom all the men wanted to serve. He was competent, led by example and loved his men. A fellow officer said, "If God ever needed a warrior Himself, he would pick Van Wilson." Posted on his wall was a quote by Chief Tecumseh, "When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over in a different way. Sing your death song, and die like a hero going home." Van is survived by his parents, Stephen A. and Claire Wilson of Baton Rouge; a brother and sister, Blake Wilson, recruit, U.S. Marine Corps, and Grace Erin, a freshman at LSU; paternal grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. J.V. Wilson Jr. of Covington; maternal grandmother, Mrs. J.B. Whitlatch of Baton Rouge; and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and fiancé, Michelle Dauro of Long Beach, Miss. Van was preceded in death by his maternal grandfather, J.B. Whitlatch. Visitation at Rabenhorst Funeral Home, 825 Government St., was on Wednesday, Feb. 1, from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. Visiting at First Presbyterian Church on Thursday, Feb. 2, from 11:30 a.m. until religious service at 1 p.m. Burial with full military honors at Port Hudson National Cemetery, attended by a U.S. Navy Color Guard. In lieu of flowers, those who wish may make a donation to the Van Wilson Memorial Fund, c/o First Presbyterian Church.

Published by The Advocate from Jan. 27 to Feb. 2, 2006.
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God has rested this Warrior, Soldier and Gentleman.

Chief Tecumseh Brown-Eagle

January 26, 2021

Dear family, remembering with you...❤

Debi (Barton) McConnell

Friend

January 21, 2021

If anyone would like to nominate Van for a banner on the Avenue of Heroes in Coronado, California, please do so by contacting the asst city manager of Coronado, Tom Ritter at 619-522-7300. It is free. His banner will be up for six months.

Toni Mcgowan

January 20, 2016

Blake Whitlatch

September 22, 2011

Van has been on my mind lately-- I don't know why. So much has changed since he passed and I can't help but wonder how things would be different were he still with us. He touched so many.

Lindsay Morris Hodapp

July 14, 2011

Still thinking about you Van. Little things will always remind me of you. I heard your chuckle in my head the other day. It made me smile. You are still missed so very much.

Emily Harshbarger

June 17, 2011

Stumbled upon this site looking for results for my own boy Andrew Wilson in terms of wrestling. Read the story was so touched. God will get it all figured out int the end. Wonderful boy. I hope this helps as you reflect. Andrew Wilson MD, FACS.

March 30, 2011

I saw the climbing rock at Perkins Road Park and then read about an true American man online. Thank you for the opportunity to lean about Van and how he added to the lives of people who knew him. I am proud to know that Baton Rouge and his parents produced such a fine young man who set goals and then let nothing stop him from them. Thank you.

Joel Charlson

February 20, 2011

My heart is broken still on this 4th Anniversary of losing our Big Van and along with our entire family and so many friends, we lift you up, Dear Wilson's, and continue to pray for your healing each day.
How we miss Van! He comes to mind so many times of each month, especially when enjoying Nature's beauty in adventure and/or solace. He is along with me flying down mountains of snow, hiking boulders in the John Muir Wilderness in the Eastern Sierra's, and sitting quietly by the Southern California or Hawaiian shore. And of course, giving me the "thumbs up" when I'm cooking a pretty good meal!
My heart is full of gratitude and humility for the honor- name of our new Grandson, Van Christopher Peterson, born November 23, 2009 to son Kelsey and Kaitlun. Lil' Van will so love his Namesake and the amazing, fun stories many of you will share in joy and remembrance of a man so, so fine.
We Love you Van. We love you Claire, Steve, Blake and Grace.
Christina Brown, Laguna Beach, California

January 26, 2010

Jan Dickens

November 24, 2009

I heard whistling today
unknown distance
but far away

a softly whispering whistle
carried upon a gentle wind
untold distance when measured by time

Since last I heard the whistle
of a man at work
sublime

Stephen Muro

August 13, 2009

'Asalaam Alaikum' from Camp Victory.

Mia DeLouise

January 26, 2009

My Dear Claire & Steve,
I think of you more often than you could ever imagine. I woke up today with you on my mind ~ AGAIN!! ~ and just felt compelled to contact you. I want you to know that no matter how much time passes, you and your precious family remain in our thoughts ~ in our hearts. We continue to lift you all in prayer. I know that "time" is a great healer ~ but, I also know that some heartaches are lifelong. I wish I had some "healing words" to comfort you. Please know that you are in my daily prayers. May you be comforted by the loving care of our Holy Father. I pray for His peace to lift you each day ~ as you continue on your earthly journey. Dickie and I BOTH send you our love.
In His Care, Beth (Morris) Gayle

Beth Gayle

November 3, 2008

beth gayle

November 3, 2008

I am extremely sad to hear of your loss. I will keep your family in my prayers.

Jonathan Boyce

October 3, 2008

Jim and I will NEVER forget our wonderful neighbors on Riverdale Drive - Bea and Van. Bea was my 'walking buddy' and Van. . .such a gentleman. A loving husband (countless visits to see his Bea); a man who cared so much for his children and grandchildren. Steve and Joe, please extend our condolences to your wives and children. What a pleasure it was to have known Van. Hilda Roberts

Jim and Hilda Roberts

February 26, 2008

TEMPORARILY APART

Van was born about 24 years ago
Raised in the Lord, this we know
His parents showing Jesus’ ways
So he followed Jesus all his days

A man of stature about six ft three
Confident but humble to the core
A true brother to his siblings two

The trusted friend to all he knew
His ambition to be the Navy SEAL
Was his goal that Van made real
His courage tested, tried and true
He was a man many looked up to

He met the love of his young life
So he planned to take her to wife
Van did not live out every dream
He passed on to Heaven’s stream

We will be called there some day
When God calls us Heaven’s way
As God called Van we will all go

We’ll see him whom we loved so
Until then we will remember him
One of the best there’s ever been
Loving him deep within the heart
Though we are temporarily apart


Written by Don Sheldon
26 JAN 07

Don Sheldon

January 26, 2007

I just received the note we sent your back in January. Don't know where it has been for so long. It was just a note conveying our deepest sympathies for the lost of your son Van. I have heard nothing but wonderful things about him. Please know that you and your family have been in our prayers since we heard the news.

Dan and Kathy Chassee

Dan And Kathy Cjhassee

August 11, 2006

Our Dearest Claire & Steve,

We honestly can't find the words to express our feelings, but we just had to let you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your precious family. Our hearts just sank when we heard the news of Van's passing. We had not known about this or you certainly would've heard from us sooner. We were in Baton Rouge for the 4th of July and found out then. It broke our hearts ~ we all stopped, fell to our knees and prayed for all of you. We've had you and ALL of your family in our DAILY prayers ever since.

After reading about Van ~ it's clear to see that your beloved son was indeed a FINE YOUNG MAN ~ AN INSPIRATION TO ALL WHO KNEW HIM! No doubt, you were very proud of him ~ and STILL ARE ~ as his loving memory lives on in your hearts. What a POWERFUL LIGHT he shined on everyone around him ~ as his earthly accolades were many! We all could ~ AND SHOULD ~ learn a lot from Van's fine example of Christianity, Bravery, Courage and Dedication. Clearly, Van "LIVED" AS HE "BELIEVED" and he has left his "MARK of Morals & Values" on this earth for all to remember him by. He dedicated his life to everything he believed in AND to everyone he held dear! Our Lord MUST have a mission for him in Heaven that only VAN could accomplish! He is now spreading his wings in Heaven as he did here on earth! As for those of us who mourn him and miss him ~ we will continue to see VAN's LIGHT as it now shines through you, his beloved family, and ALL whose lives he so deeply touched!

Our hearts are with you as we lift you in prayer each day. We Love You, dear friends, and are "here for you" in WHATEVER way you may need us. In the meantime, our prayers will continue ALWAYS.

May God Bless you with His Divine Peace as you take each step forward with Van's wings wrapped tightly around you!

In His Love,

Beth, Dickie, Gip & Taylor Gayle

beth gayle

July 24, 2006

We are so sorry for your loss. All of our sympathies to you and your family.

Bobby & Heather Williams

March 13, 2006

Our hearts go out to you in your loss. We will be praying for your family. What a gift to have had such a son.

Valerie Flynn and Thomas Wintz

March 10, 2006

Steve,

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I received an email from the TCE reunion committee. I can not imagine how difficult this is for all of you. Please know you are in my prayers. If there is anything at all I can do for you and your family please do not hesitate to contact me.

Lynn Freeman McIntire

March 2, 2006

When my mind is not full and busy I think of Van. The ache of knowing the rest of our lives will be lived without the joy of his company is hard to bare. But eventually gratitude comes. I am so grateful he was in our lives. I am grateful to Steve and Claire for being wonderful people and parents. And, I am grateful that this passage from The Book of Revelation 2:17 is about him.



I will give to him who overcomes some of the hidden manna, and I will give him a white stone with a new name written on it which no one knows except the man who receives it.

Paul

February 27, 2006

God bless your family in this tough time. Van was an inspiration to us all for his his kindness, warmth, and strength. He will not be forgotten.

Blake Brundidge

February 24, 2006

Mr. and Mrs. Wilson:



We are sorry we are late in sending you our condolences. We were not aware of the Guest Book.



We both were left without words when we found out about Van. It seems all to often the good are called home before we are ready for them to go. We were both proud of

Van for his success. As a former military man, Dr. Strain was extremely proud of Van completing the Naval Academy and Seal training. But that was Van, he saw something and he did his best to obtain it.

Again, we wish to express our sincerest sorrow.



Dr. and Mrs. Strain

Robert & Mary Strain

February 22, 2006

Dear Wilson Family:

Blake and my son, Clayton, were friends at CLA. They have come a long way since those days and I am so proud of them both. Van was someone they looked up to. I pray Van's new post will allow him to look over our sons who have followed in his footsteps, that his presence in their hearts will keep them strong and inspired. I pray with heavy heart for your loss. What a remarkable man!

Cathy Edmonds

February 20, 2006

I went to Lee High school and wrestled a year and the first thing I saw and remembered was seeing Van's name on the list of city and state champs. From their on the other wrestlers and Coach Boff, told me the stories of how Van really emerged into a true talent after realizing he has the potential. I met Van only a couple of times during practice but instanly from the moment he spoke that he was a true leader. My best wishes go out to the Wilson family and please keep your heads up, because Van was truly a great inspiration in my life.

Chad Darensbourg

February 15, 2006

Hello to the Wilson Family

I am friends of Gabe Grauke & Family from Brenham, Texas. I learned of your lost through his mother. I am a member of the BGO-USNA Houston Team. The entire nation feels your lost and honors your son. God has never made a mistake and he took your to guard his home above. A nation is thankful for his life because he helped to give us the freedom that we all enjoy. I know that god will watch over you.



God Speed



Ellery C. Stevenson

Ellery Stevenson

February 14, 2006

I knew Van for the few years of high school and he was one of the best guys I've ever met. He was charismatic and confident in who he was as well as what he believed. But he also appreciated other people's unique differences and respected who they were. Almost ironically, being around Van one never felt small but accepted. That is how I know Van.



I don't think we ever really lose people like Van, nor do we ever miss them. When we follow our instincts and what feels right we tap into the source to which Van has now returned. That is how we all know Van and that type of presence is always with us.

Nathan Mahaffey

February 14, 2006

You lived in the present,

Alive, a life that God gently sent.



Strong and good and loyal and kind,

Oh, Van, you haunt me in heart and in mind.



I yearn and remember and want to fortell,

but you lived each day, you rang like a bell.



You are now myth, as Greeks must be,

with Ulysses and Pericles, brothers at sea.



So think of us mortals from time to time,

Who wish and hope for your place sublime.



We love and miss you, it's hard to stand,

We wait for the day and God's gracious hand.

Uncle Ward

February 13, 2006

Steve, Claire, and family,

I am so saddened to learn of your loss. Barbara and Peter have shared with me what a beautiful memorial service it was. I know Van was a very special man and that he has touched many lives. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Marcia Milhan Schroeder

February 12, 2006

Words can't describe Van, he is too big for them. He was a brother to me in every sense of the word; picked on me, was critical of who I dated, and some times just annoying :) but always a friend, always loving, and forever missed. God Bless Van Wilson. God blessed me by allowing me to know Van.

Kari Lightner

February 7, 2006

I am a friend of Judson Kauffman and I met Van at their graduation in December. He was a very energetic and genuine person to be around. Van and his family will always be in my prayers.

Amy Karydas

February 7, 2006

The Wilson Family,

I feel truly blessed that I had the privlage of knowing Van. He provided me with nothing but inspiration to become all that I can and to love the world I live in . Van will be in our hearts forever, and I know he will be at our sides when we need him.

Christian Foschi

February 7, 2006

Born a Godly warrior with a tender heart towards people and God...Van Andrew Wilson...a mighty man of valor...the personification of great strength and courage under control...humble and engaging...vibrant and full of life.



Van, your very proud Uncle Joey and Aunt Susan deeply mourn our loss of you. We anticipate with those who love and admire you the sure reunion in the heavenlies where our eyes can not now see or even begin to imagine the splendor you are enjoying. In this thought alone do we find comfort for your "early" (for our desires) departure from us.



We know that the scriptures say that you have joined a great cloud of witnesses cheering us on in the faith and in our lives. Cheer hard for us, Dear Van, we ache for your voice and presence.



A closing word of thanks..and a final apology...for the time I tied you to the tree when you were 11, I am sorry. For the grace you displayed in not doing the same or worse to me when you outgrew and towered over me, I am forever grateful :)



We miss you Mighty Warrior, dressed for battle...now it is time for you to train further with the Lion of the Tribe of Judah!



To God be the glory for your life and love, Van!



Uncle Joey and/for Aunt Susan

Joey Wilson

February 7, 2006

I met Van at the Academy, and only wish I knew him better. Thank you for giving us all a chance to know a great person, that improved everyone he met with a laugh and a smile. He will never be forgotten and always be missed.

Dave Vogelgesang

February 7, 2006

I wish that words alone could ease your pain right now because the sheer number of people that have written in this guest book would make you feel better, but it doesn't work that way. We have grieved with you this past week and will continue to miss Van from our lives. He was my "other" son. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. You are not alone. Van will be missed by many.

Judy Collins

February 7, 2006

A friend brother teamate

Micah fink

February 6, 2006

See you in Valhalla. We live your legacy forever Van

Jonathan Echols

February 6, 2006

Years ago, when we lived in Covington, Louisiana, Van's grandmother - Bee - and I were walking partners. Her conversations were mostly about her boys and her grandchildren. I vividly remember her talking about "Little Van". How proud both she and his grandfather were of their grandchildren.



Sincere condolences from my husband, Jim, and me.



Hilda Roberts

Hilda Roberts

February 6, 2006

Claire and Steve,

We just wanted to thank you for sharing your time of sorrow with us last week. The memorial time at the pool and all of the evenings with the Seals and Van's many friends were a true celebration of his life. We know you must have been exhausted and so sad, but the times really helped his friends and hopefully gave you comfort as well.

Thank you and know we are still thinking of you and praying for you, Blake, and Grace.

Michael, Denise, Dustin, Elliot and Hayley

Denise Westphal

February 6, 2006

For a very short time I had the pleasure of forging a bond between us most people search for their whole lives. As we spoke before I have no remembrance of the beginning of our friendship. It matters not, just know I love you like a brother, a friend, a teammate. In my mind you are not gone, you will always live in my thoughts, in my speech, and in my heart.

Mac

Floyd McLendon Jr

February 6, 2006

John LeBlanc

February 5, 2006

You were the best friend I could have asked for at the Academy. You were there for me at a time when I needed you most, and for that, I am forever greatful. I've never learned more about what it means to be a friend than I learned from you. I love you man, and I'll see you soon. Peace.

Josh Ray

February 5, 2006

mat culver

February 5, 2006

Adam Fritz

February 4, 2006

Mario Romero

February 4, 2006

I will never forget that I had the honor of being a classmate and teammate of a great man. I will see him again in the place of fallen warriors.

February 4, 2006

I wish to express my deepest sympathy for the loss of Van.

You are in my prayers and thoughts. God Bless you.

Sincerely,

Gina Duke

February 4, 2006

Steve and Claire,

I'm so sorry to hear of Van's death. Sharon told me earlier this week of this tragic event. Over the years I've heard so much about him from Sharon and Ryan. Most recently over Christmas, I was so pleased to hear of his latest success as a Navy Seal. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts.

Connie Daniel Kamerling

February 4, 2006

Steve,



I am very sorry for the tragic loss of your son Van. As a parent, I can only imagine how devastating it would be to lose a son, particularly a young man who was moving forward with life in such an acomplished manor. It was only recently that I learned from Keith Devall that Van was on his way to Seal Team 10 to join Keith's son Bubba (Christopher). Keith told me that he and Bubba attended Van's funeral yesterday. My heartfelt sympathies go out to you and your family in this difficult time as well as my prayers for Van and your family.

Scott Trahern

February 3, 2006

I think the song says it best-



~Only The Good Die Young~



GOD BLESS YOU NAVY SEAL VAN WILSON



LOVE AND PRAYERS,



The Blades Family,

Montpelier, Louisiana

February 3, 2006

Steve and Claire, I am so sorry to hear about Van, I didn't know him but,remember how proud Steve was of his family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless All of You.

Philomena Mannino Martrain

February 3, 2006

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Wilson,



Some of the best times of my youth were spent in adventures camping with Van in the boy scouts. Never content with basket-weaving, he was always climbing the tallest thing he could find or pushing through bulwarks of thornbushes to find the beauty off the beaten path.

He was a great friend when I had few. I will always be in awe of his loyalty, his integrity, and his compassion; he had the courage to follow his destiny, and for that he will always be an inspiration to me.



Van was a Warrior Spirit too great for our world.

I look forward to the honor of one day meeting him again.

Everett

February 3, 2006

Steve & Claire,

Van was a blue eyed, blond haired, energetic little boy of about six the last time I saw him. Even then he was exhibiting leadership skills. How proud you must be of his accomplishments and the many people he has touched. My heart goes out to your family for your loss. My prayer for your family is for GOD's grace to saturate you during this time of sorrow. Hold tight to your wonderful memories of Van, your faith in GOD and the support of family and friends. Rejoice in the knowledge that Van is in a better place. You have raised a wonderful son/brother/friend. Your kindness to me in my time of sorrow has NEVER been forgotten.

GOD Bless and Comfort You,

Brenda Jones

February 2, 2006

Van had an infectious smile and a great laugh. He lit up a room, and I'll never forget him.

Julia Howe

February 2, 2006

Claire,

My sincerest sympathies to you and your family.

Lisa Muilenburg

February 2, 2006

Steve, Claire and family,

As members of First Presbyterian Church, my grandchildren, Lauren and Ben Pourciau know the Wilson children. We are all so saddened by the loss of Van and offer our heart felt love and sympathy at this time. Van will be remembered

by the youth of First Pres as a great leader - we can't have enough of these in this chaotic time!

Sincerely,

Myrtle Pettit

Myrtle Pettit

February 2, 2006

Ensign Van A. Wilson passed away leaving an honorable and influential legacy.

Thomas Davis

February 2, 2006

I read of Van on the Hugh Hewitt website where he posted his obituary. I was touched and wanted to offer my sincere thanks to the family for Van's commitment and service to this country. What a wonderful young man. I know he will be missed but what a wonderful hope that we will see him again some day. May God fill the huge void that Van's loss has left in your familiy's heart. Blessings.

Dr. Paula Brumit

February 2, 2006

We had the privilege of meeting Van through our son and daugher-in-law, Ryan and Stacy Peters. Van was an inspiration to Ryan at the Academy and Coronado and a trusted friend to Stacy, they were truly blessed to have him in their lives. Please know that we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Terry and Debbie Peters

Terry and Debbie Peters

February 2, 2006

Having known Van thru our Grandson Brian Collins, our hearts are also broken. At sometime God will give you a peace to help you cope with such a loss. Ed and Betty Sensat

Betty & Ed Sensat

February 2, 2006

Steve, Claire, Blake, and Grace,

Our hearts break for you at the loss of your son who loved and was loved so deeply. Please know that you are constantly in our thoughts and prayers.

amy, bill, maggie and sam justice

bill

February 2, 2006

One hand for the ship.



One hand for a friend.



Love

Uncle Ward

February 2, 2006

My heart sank when I heared the news of van. I remember growing up with him as a young child and have always being very impressed by his goals and accomlishments.

Will Adams

February 2, 2006

to the wilson family:

although we did not know van personally, we do know marshall boyd. we were his sponsor parents at the naval academy. and, we know what an awesome young man and friend he was to marshall. we were so saddened to hear about van when we spoke to marshall. please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. may God's strenght and love guide you through this difficult time. Godspeed, Van.

jenn schied

February 2, 2006

With Deepest Sympathy to the Wilson family. We pray that the angels of the Lord surround you with peace and strength through your hours of sorrow. May it help in some small way to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.



The staff at Woodlawn Family Health

Woodlawn Family Health

February 2, 2006

Dear Steve, Claire and family,

Brent and I are so very sorry to hear of your beloved son, Van. He was an exceptional individual and those who have come to know him are truely blessed. We are keeping you in our thoughts..

Brent & Ti

Brent & Ti Beasley

February 2, 2006

Steve,Claire,Blake&Gracie,

Iam so deeply sorry for your loss, he seemed to be such a great young man who accomplished so much in his short life. Keep the faith, that you all have. My prayers and thoughts will be with you always.

philomena mannino martrain

February 2, 2006

My heart mourns the loss you have suffered and I wish to offer our sincerest sympathy to your family. The loss will be felt on many fronts in many places and by many people. He was truly inspirational in all he did and raised the bar for those who follow. A truly remarkable young man that stood out from the ranks as a real leader and champion in every challenge he undertook. May he rest in peace and may God comfort you.

Wren Grauke

February 1, 2006

I knew Van only for a few short years, but he touched me in numerous non-repayable ways. I wrestled with him for a time, and now I am also enlisted in the Navy. Throughout my wrestling career, and my brief time in the Navy, I have often and do often think of Van and what an inspiration he has always been. It comforts me to know that he is with God. And while he is already missed, he is serving his Lord, and that is even more inspiration for me.

Micky Loupe

February 1, 2006

I am sorry to hear of such a great loss. I have had the pleasure of growing up with Van and family. This news shocked me that such a good person could leave this earth so early. The last time i saw Van he was all smiles talking about how much he liked the navy. He was a little bit intimidating but one of those people who are great to be around and make you happy when your around him. This has touch my life and he will never be forgotten.

Jason Parnell

February 1, 2006

Rest easy, young soldier. Your time on earth is through. But your memory will live on in the hearts of everyone who treasures freedom and appreciates the extent of your commitment to your buds and to these United States.



Your Mom and Dad are aggrieved, as would be any parent under these circumstances, but someday they will know the reason this life's mission had to end this way.



Chief Tecumseh was right...

Ben Pressburg

February 1, 2006

"The Protector" is gone. A warrior for God, Family, and Country. Van was a true and loyal friend and I will never forget all the good that he spread to each person he met. God has taken Van into heaven to keep doing what he's always done on earth. There can be no greater a guardian angel than Van Andrew Wilson. Rest in peace brother. We will meet again.

Judson Kauffman

February 1, 2006

Steve and Claire: How truly heartbroken we are for you and your family. Yours is a grief that only few have known. Our prayer is that God's grace will be ever-present as you walk this path. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jim & Donna Bourg

February 1, 2006

Steve, Kathrin and I are so saddened by the loss of your son. We are holding you and your family closely in our prayers. John 11:35

In Him, Jim & Kathrin Sieberth

Jim Sieberth

February 1, 2006

God has called an honorable Sailor to guide his ship in heaven.

Bobbie Pugh

February 1, 2006

Dear Steve, Claire, Blake, and Grace,



Though I cannot imagine the gravity of your grief, please know that my thoughts and prayers are persistently with you all through this enormously difficult time. What an obviously exquisite young man was your son and brother. The only words that have ever given me peace through times of great sorrow are these, from Romans 11: 33-36,



"Oh, the depths of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God. How unsearchable are His judgements, and his ways past finding out. For, who has known the mind of the Lord, and who has been His counselor. And, who has first given to Him, that it shall be recompensed unto him again. For, of Him, through Him, and to Him are all things, to whom be glory forever."





Much love to you all, always.



Truly,



Hal

Hal Strickland

February 1, 2006

Dear Claire and Family: I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. Van sounds like he was a fine young man. You must have been so proud of him. May God bless you and your family in your time of sorrow.



Love, Jeryl Anne D'Arensbourg Salzer

Jeryl Anne Salzer

February 1, 2006

I'd like to express my deepest condolences to the Wilson family and anybody else saddened by this loss.



I had the pleasure of seeing Van a few days before New Years. Even though I hadn't seen him since 2001, it felt just like we were kids again. He wanted to know how I was doing, what I was doing, and most importantly if I was happy. Van's genuine concern for his friends earned him their love, respect, and admiration.



I was both thrilled and proud to hear that Van finally became a SEAL. I've never known anybody more motivated, ambitious, and dedicated. I feel honored to have known him.

Steven Mercier

February 1, 2006

Even though I did not have the opportunity to meet and know Van, my niece, Michelle, and her mother thought the world of him. I am so sorry for your loss, but always know that his spirit is with you forever.

Linda Dauro-Bouleige

February 1, 2006

STEVE ,HEART FELT SORRY FOR YOU AND CLAIRE . ONLY MET YOUR SON ONCE WITH YOU ONE EVENING .I COULD SEE THAT HE WAS A VERY IMPRESSIVE YOUNG MAN WITH A HUGE AMOUNT OF SELF CONFIDENCE. A SON YOU WERE VERY PROUD OF AND I THINK IN A RESPECTFUL WAY LOOKED UP TO . I WILL BE SERIOUSLY PRAYING FOR YOU AND CLAIRE. RESPECFULLY, BLANE

P. BLANE ORTEGO

February 1, 2006

My memories of Van were all from Mag Woods Pool! His smile and fun filled spirit was inspiring whether it was watching him play games in the pool or inside the clubhouse. He was a joy to lifeguard and coach as an older kid You gotta love that Astroworld trip!Not to mention all the girls had a big crush on him.It was Alan Thomas,Kyle Bauman and oh my gosh Van Wilson "he smiled at me"! Blake and Van were already in the older group but Grace was only 8 or 9 I can't believe she is in college now.She drove Van nuts but he was also very overprotective of her noone was gonna mess with his younger sister or his younger brother!He also looked up to his parents. I remember how he was always so respectful. I know you all are sooo proud of him and the life he lived.He will smile down from Heaven at you forever! Continue to attend and enjoy the events and things that Van enjoyed it will give you a sense of closeness to him!You all are in my prayers,Laurie Mcknight

Laurie McKnight

February 1, 2006

Steve and Claire, we are heartbroken for you and your children. Our prayers for comfort and strength will go up continually.

Mike and Kathleen Williams

February 1, 2006

Dear Steve,

I can't imagine anything worse that could happen to a man than to lose a child. As I write this, I am thinking of my 16-year-old son Clark and my 13-year-old daughter Cora. My heart goes out to you and your family. I am glad I stopped by briefly three days ago to console you and introduce you to my son. How nice to see there were Navy rugby pals of Van's who travelled to BR to pay their last repects. When the Lord calls me home, I trust that MY fellow rugby blood brothers will give me a similar sendoff. I heard Van's rugby mates visited George's to toast him and scrawl a goodbye note to him on a dollar bill that is posted there. I am glad I got to meet Van; he was a son to be proud of. You will have a rough couple of years ahead of you dealing with this grief. I don't envy that. When my brother took his own life 20 years ago it took me a long, long time to heal. You just can't rush the grieving process. If things get unbearable, call me and we'll quaff some suds together and talk about old times when we romped on green fields with our LSU Rugby chums.

Godspeed and God bless,

Ted

Ted McGehee

February 1, 2006

Mr. and Mrs. Wilson, I'm so sorry for your lost. My thoughts and prayers are with you, My son-in-law Sterling Beasley speaks very highly of your son, so I just wanted to say how sorry my family and I for your lost, my our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ be with you always.

LaJean mitchell

February 1, 2006

Mr. and Mrs. Wilson, Blake, and Grace. My heart is with you as you brave a world without Van. He was a wonderful person and I am honored to have been under his leadrship and guidance. It was a privaledge to be his friend. God Bless you all.

Sterling Beasley

February 1, 2006

We are so sorry to hear about your incredible loss, and thank you for the sacrafice your son was willing to make for us and our country. If there is anything that we can do, please let us know. We pray God's love and peace comforts you. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family.

Locke and Jill Meredith

Locke Meredith & Family

February 1, 2006

Dear Claire,

So very sorry about the loss of your son. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Jay Whitley

January 31, 2006

I knew Van briefly when he first came to USNA an underclassman in my company. Throughout his time at Annapolis, it is no surprise that he stood out among he peers as a leader and great friend. You must be extraordinarily proud of the manner in which he lived and served. God Bless and my most heartfelt condolences.



LTJG Chris Longabaugh

USNA '03

Chris Longabaugh

January 31, 2006

My heart aches and I weep when I read these wonderful tributes about the young warrior Van Andrew Wilson. I don't recall in my lifetime ever remembering an outpouring of affection to this degree with what I've read in this register about Van, his family and his friends. It warms my heart to know of how many people Van touched and continues to affect even in his death at such a young age. Van's life is a testimony to all of us and serves as a reminder to me that his passing should challenge all of us both young and old to consider the possibility that God may want us to carry on and do some of the work which Van was so willing and eager to do. There is no greater hope or joy than in being in the immediate presence of The Lord and I know Van is confidently standing in His presence. Van's death came much earlier than we would have expected, but I know the Lord has his appointed time for everything. I hold on to the hope that God does all things well even though I don't understand his ways sometimes. Steve and Claire we just visited with you at Amy's wedding last month and had such a nice visit. I am so very sorry about the loss of Van and I grieve with you and your family. I know how grateful you both are for all of your kids and how proud you are of each of them. May God grant you some sense of comfort and peace in the midst of the sorrow you are experiencing. As Job said in chapter 1:21 " The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away. Blessed be the name of the Lord. " He took a good man and must have needed him badly at His side. Carol and I love you both and we and others here in Denver are lifting you all up and standing in the gap with you.

Danny Adler

January 31, 2006

Dearest Steve, Claire, Blake, and Grace - "We do not want you to be uninformed, brothers and sisters, about those who have died, so that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have died." (1 Thessalonians 4:13



No words, no poems, no stories, can make you feel better about what has happened to Van. But as Paul said so well, we are free (in fact we are MADE) to grieve, but not as those who have no hope. We love you, and we grieve with you. What fond memories we have of Van and Rachel playing together when they were small! What fun watching him wrestle when he came to Hoover! How proud you can be of who he became, and how happy he must be now that he is in the place he was created to be.



We love you, we love you, we love you! We are praying for all four of you!



BE THE LIGHT!



Chuck, Jenny, Rachel, and Abby

Chuck and Jenny Hebert

January 31, 2006

Steve & Claire

Our hearts are in such pain of the news of Van. There is not an hour that goes by that we are thinking of your family. We remember Van as a little boy playing with Jenna, but have heard about his great accomplishments over the past years. You should be so proud and may God carry you all through this with his grace. We await to meet our master and see Van one day again. Love, Jimmy & JoLynn

Jimmy & Jo Lynn Saizan

January 31, 2006

I had the pleasure of meeting Van in many different venues at the Academy and I was always struck by his ability to make everyone feel welcome whenever they were around him. He left a lasting legacy and impression in the heart and mind of anyone who met him. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and I offer my deepest condolences.

Frank Parisi

January 31, 2006

To The Wilson Family,



We got to know Van and your family at Navy Rugby games. Our son Damon had the privilege of playing Rugby with Van. We remember Van as a handsome, confident warrior who was an awesome leader and a gentle giant, the Rugby team was better because of him. God will help you through this incredible time, he has Van with him now.

God Bless You, The Doykos Family,

Cecy, George, Aris and Damon '05

Cecelia Doykos

January 31, 2006

Steve,

Please know that many of us are thinking of you and your family. I am so sorry.

Tom Mincher

January 31, 2006

I have never been more impressed with a person. Playing on the same field as Van was an honor. One of my favorite rugby memories is of the one time when Van didn't tackle me.

Nick Ralston

January 31, 2006

Although I never met your son, I know that he will be missed. I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you in this very painful time.



Love, Stephanie Dufour Dixon

Stephanie Dixon

January 31, 2006

January 31, 2006

To the Wilsons,



Growing up on Baird Dr., I've known Van my entire life. Everytime turning onto Baird from Walden, since high school, I would look for Van's truck parked across the street from your home. It was always comforting to see that he made it home or just that I knew he woud be there when I needed to be reminded of home. Whenever he came back to BR from school or training I looked forward to see him. He has such a powerful energy that makes everyone, including myself, want to be near him. Everything I remember about growing up in Magnolia Woods includes Van and always will. From being chased down the street while riding my bike to water fights at mag woods pool, Van will be one my first and fondest memories of my childhood. I love that man like a brother and will never forget his essence. We are all so lucky that Van will live on through Grace and Blake and all of those friends who he meant so much to.



To Michelle, we got to meet at lunch on New Years Eve with Van. This was the last time I saw him an the first time I was lucky enough to meet you. You brought out the Van that I feel may have completed him. You are so beautiful and we are so blessed that you are with us to remember and remind us of our brother.



Reference to John 3:16 - - Thank You so much for sharing Van Wilson with all of us.



Godspeed Van.

I love you.

Julia Kebanli

January 31, 2006

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